TSGOYNA’S BLOG
What Are You Worrying About?
“Should I worry my son can’t say things like other children?” a mother asked me. Pretty much all I heard was “Should I worry?” I knew what she meant, but her question was “SHOULD I WORRY?” We think worry is passive, but the truth is worry is like...
How A Resource Anchor Keeps You Afloat
I popped open the lid of the shower gel and breathed in the scent. Paris, 2004, The George V hotel. It was the scent of money and luxury, definitely pre-2008. It was a shower gel I'd taken as a souvenir from the hotel and now 12 years later, I was instantly...
Why you Should Lie, Cheat and Steal
If you think successful people lie, cheat and steal, you may be right, but it may not be what you think. Successful people take responsibility for the images they create and the things they tell themselves. Right out of the chute we each come with the greatest...
Will You Let Go of One More Thing?
Image from Karen Kingston, Clear Your Clutter It wasn't a resolution It was a revolution A mindset A sudden, complete change In my theme of Alignment, Abundance,and Adventure I wanted more Which meant I needed less. I needed less of what didn't serve me...
Where Are Your Thoughts Taking You?
"I just want to be happy." That's a pretty common reply to the question, "What do you want in life?" So what is happiness? What causes it to be present and what causes it to flee? Is the problem with Happiness that we treat it like a noun, believing...
What’s Your Theme for 2017?
Theme parks. Party themes. Theme songs. Are you catching the theme? Themes are a way of organizing a big picture category, a vibe, a value, a guiding principle. Disney chose the theme “The Happiest Place on Earth” and...
How Will You Cross the 2016 Finish Line?
Have you ever noticed the best runners cross the finish line with a flourish? They save a burst for the end. They cross the line as winners. As we approach the finish line of 2016, do you find yourself looking at the goals you wanted to achieve while...
What Will You Put on Your Gift List?
As we slam into the end of the year it seems we can’t avoid the bombardment of messages telling us to buy buy buy Yet, by next year it’s likely whatever was bought this year will either be broken, out of fashion, not the Apple 8, or lost and forgotten....
Are We There, Yet?
Are we there yet are we there yet?” This was the persistent refrain from the backseat of the blue Chevy impala with no air- conditioning, in August, where my sister, brother, grandmother and I sat, fought and slept for the three day, 1179 mile road trip...
The Gift of Feeling Blue
Blue, Baby, Blue Not just a catchy song, but a common state of being. One of my clients recently lamented, “I always feel blue around the holidays.” How often have you, or someone else, said the very same thing? Anxiousness & Isolation are the primary...